Fatoyinbo Vs Busola: Rape or Regret-Sex; Who Is The Real Culprit — Mouthpiece NG
As reactions continue to pour in, Mouthpiece NG has carefully noted some people’s reaction on the trend issue between COZA Pastor, Biodun Fatoyinbo and Busola Dakolo.
Kindly go through the reactions to know the real culprit before Justice finally take its course;
— When Busola Dakolo was narrating her sexual ordeal with the COZA Pastor, she kept on calling him Pastor throughout in the video. I saw dignifying respect in the way she referenced him. I am a Yoruba and Busola is Yoruba too. In fact the alleged rape happened on supposed Yoruba soil in Ilorin. Anybody who will be objective will confirm that no Victim of rape in Yoruba land will treat his alleged Rapist with respect. Forget upbringing, if you have been raped, there is a tendency that you will curse your Raper and use derogatory words on him. Busola never did that in her video. Couple with other points, it is not entirely believable that it was a rape but sex could have actually happened between them without prior preparation. The supposed Victim still attended the same COZA church after her alleged maiden violation until she was brought for the second test of coital fusion. Pastor Fatoyinbo was not faithful to Jesus and his marriage oath by sleeping with Busola but was that a Rape? I do not think so. She was even describing how the Man took out his manhood and the rest up till the point that Krest drink was later brought from the car. It does not look like a Rape. However, we can make the COZA Pastor answer for crime of infidelity but certainly, it is difficult to believe Rape happened between them
— presume a sane mind will separate emotions, sympathy and religion from logic in cases like this.
I put it to you that 80% of the world problem, wars, insurgencies are tailored by religion.
I have no reason to believe busola neither do I have a reason to doubt her. She decided not to voice out earlier for reasons best known to her. Perhaps, if she speak out earlier, a sound kind will ask for an evidence. Even sexual harassment counsellors don’t advice public charge without a sound proof. To be or not to be, she could have picked someone else. Another sound argument against the man of God is that there are previous unchecked allegations similar to the present.
However, when I remember the punishment of being guilty for such a barbaric charge at the court of law (life imprisonment). I consent to giving pastor a benefit of doubt.
I strongly believe lack of sound evidence is one of the reasons busola did file a case before now. Let’s see what proof she has to tender at the court of law. Afterall, pastor also deserve a fair hearing.
— few points…
1. If pastor Biodun had sex with Busola at that time when she was only 17- he has a case to answer.
In the eyes of the law, a 17yr old lady can not consent to sex in whatever ways or under any circumstance till she clocks 18years.
2. Busola had her chance to speak up in 2013 when Ese Walter came out with her side of this sexcapade. Her decision to speak now is in her rights but she should also tell us reasons why its coming out now.
Her husband has been a strong critic of Coza and its leadership for a while. Is the criticisms founded on things he knew about the duo? Or is it a case of the PB still secretly having an affair with Busola till the husband’s knowledge of the matter? I really am thinking weirdly cos of things I have seen before.
3. We need to remind ourselves that these are Men of God. The man that was pronounced first must always ring a bell. They have emotions. Don’t always ‘daddy them’ by staying unnecessarily free around them unless under watch. My experiences with young ladies have taught me that they are constantly drawn to anything that seems like authority. They just want to be around the popular, powerful and happening guys (socio political leaders on campus can relate)
In conclusion, rape is a strong allegation, don’t wait for 10years before you speak out. The reason we are even talking about Busola’s case is because Pastor Fatoyinbo has been earlier alleged of the same crime before. Let us encourage our young ladies to speak up now including our young girls against those senior uncles that touch them in places that are not dignifying.
— A pastor raped you, you didn’t report him immediately, you never stopped attending the church. Tell me, is it the dick that interests you or the sermon?
Rape always come with war. There is no any lady that will ever pray or forgive anyone that rape her let alone attending the rapist church. Why was Busola silent all these while ? Could she have also voiced out if the pastor happened to be a pauper ?
— The Coza lush pastor VS Busola Dakolo
I’m writing with no emotional coloring, with all amount of objectivity. First of all, this lush pastor has a trail of sexual escapades that has surfaced the social media but was lightly taken. Let’s start with the case of Ese. It wasn’t an account of rape but one of manipulation and abusive antics to keep taking advantage of a woman he was supposed to be a father figure to. In 2013, Ese Walter shared her encounter with him, and he promised to give a robust reply that never came through.
That’s the first red flag for me. ‘A robust reply that never came through…’
In between these years there’s been murmurings about his iniquitous dealings with women, but yet trust many gullible Nigerians to sweep any allegation against a clergyman under the carpet of ‘touch not my anointed.’ The exact words he used to manipulate Ese Walter in silence after he lured her into sex while she was in London pursuing her Masters Degree.
So here is another account of sexual veniality against him. I watched the interview and while a lot of people are trying to sound politically correct by saying HE IS NOT YET GUILTY TILL THE COURT PROCLAIMS SO, I make an exception to this abysmal show of sound judgement and empathy. I believe her.
Timi has long subtly dragged this lush pastor, I was questioning his courage, little did I know that it hit home. Timi is a Christian; a fervent one from my observation and also a man that I consider sound.
I don’t see any reason why someone of his caliber will put up these stories knowing the consequence just for what exactly?
Fame? He is famous. He is one of Nigeria’s good musicians.
Money? I don’t know his bank statement but he’s doing well for himself and his family.
Hate for men of God? He’s a Christian!
So what?
I watched that interview and Busola narrated the whole ordeal with so much exactitude and precision. You could tell this was very real.
Some of his minions are insinuating that he did it when he wasn’t a pastor and we all have a bad past in some ways. Man, he did it when he was a pastor, watch the interview. In Ese’s case, he was already a pastor of COZA. Okay, let’s assume that he was ignorant. As a man who has become revered and popular with some sort of moral expectations from him, he could have publicly apologized to his victims or even privately.
I have read of pastors who publicly confessed a past incident they knew could crumble their feat in the future. It doesn’t make you weak, it shows humility and acceptance of growth.
Some years ago, I was talking to an acquaintance and jokingly smacked her ass. I honestly didn’t know what I did could pass for sexual harassment. I mean we all grow up in this chauvinistic society where male supremacy prevails and sometimes the pattern of sexual harassment and rape is just what we learnt but months later, I realized what sexual harassment was when I read a post on Facebook. I met her one day and told her I was sorry for smacking her ass that day. She could barely remember but I had to because I didn’t know better. This is no virtue signaling. This is the truth.
But from reading the patterns in Biodun’s escapades, he is an unrepentant pathological sexual predator who has mastered the craft of manipulation because more than he abuses these women, he instills fear in them to be able to force them into silence. He is not ignorant, he is evil.
Why only him? In just a few years, there are over 10 allegations against him. There are pastors who’ve been in the ministry before him for years and never had any such allegation. Something is freaking wrong! And no, don’t ask me to wait for his own side of the story. You don’t ask a thief for his own part of the story to why he stole.
See, no brand messes with scandals like this. Rape is a serious issue in this age where women are getting more enlightened. If this man was innocent, right from the first allegation from years ago, he would have given his robust reply aptly. Guys, I was involved in a scandal on Facebook, anyone who followed me there for years should know; in less than three days, I came out to speak up and all voices were silenced because they couldn’t prove their evil allegations. Unless you didn’t work hard to have a certain perception, you won’t take any ill information about you for just a second. There’s a fury and courage you see when a man is innocent. Trust me
For all of you asking why Busola is speaking up now? There is never a wrong time to talk about abuse. Never. 10, 20, or 50 years later. It might not even be for closure but to bring these conversations to limelight so people will shed off their benightedness and be watchful because this world is crazy.
Oh, the Gucci pastor couldn’t hold the uproar today as his latest post had over 5K comments cussing him out, he was forced to put up a disjointed rebuttal saying he’s never raped a woman even as an unbeliever. Such poor Public Relations piece. He even threatened with a law suit. Sir, let’s start from Ese Walters, tell us, did she lie, did you not go to London and you guys had sex? Did you not tell her not to talk about it because nobody should touch the anointed?
Are you aging Busola conjured all of those confessions in her head? ManaGad, there’s something wrong with you sir, and the earlier you admit it, the better for you.
You have dragged the gospel in the mud. I’ve seen bad comments frowning at Christianity because of you, and it is pitiful. It’s more saddening because next tomorrow you’ll still have a great assemblage, and you’d ask them to pray as the devil is trying to bring down the church and with their little brains, they’d pray away their sense but some of us know better. We might not get the justice, I mean this country is shitty, but in the hearts of enlightened Nigerians, you are a rapist and you are stripped of dignity and integrity. We might not get justice, but our voices won’t be shut up. If you want to sue, plan to sue a lot of us, because for me, sir, you are guilty of all that was said.
Again, where is your robust reply? Well, this is my robust piece on this issue.
— They weren’t dismissed from Church. They were dismissed from their duties in church.
Bisola was a chorister who got pregnant for the then choir master.
Her first child is not for Timi Dakolo
With a lot of references , the lady’s hand are not close to being clean. I’m neither saying Pastor BIODUN is not guilty of several rape allegations levied against him. But Busola’s case appears “faulseful”.
— The video is clear.
Someone raped you in your father’s house, and you were a virgin. And your elder sister was at home at that time (early morning like 6:30 am). You can’t scream. You don’t even need to scream, just tell the culprit that your sister is at home oooo. And short a little.
He had the boldness to come back and give you a drink. You Didnt talk for Decades, you are just talking now. Your sister must be a BIG Jonah, to be sleeping till her Sister was dis……..
What amazed most was that he bent me over and place my hand on the car burnet. Pls, did the pastor tight her hands on the burnet with rope ? the lady doesnt hav shame publicly telling us someone gave her doggy at that her age. she must be a joke. i dont dispute they had sex but she should stop tagging it raping. It was consensual sex..
Those time in secondary school, ladies of her age then always admire handsome dude. Take for instance some of us that went to public school can relate the way those ladies used to fall for TP or Corpers then even some of our teachers. Because at that their age, their libido is of top notch, always demanding.
Let be properly guided, i dont encourage rape, but she should be ashamed of coming out and be fabricating that kind of lies..
The pastor is handsome though and use nice designers, back then at her age all those things can easily attract her. Certainly, from there, they had sex. but the fact still remain in every lie there is element of truth. But the word rape is what am concerned about. They had sex fine, but rape is out of it…
— COZA: WAS THERE ACTUALLY A RAPE?
Predictably, ever since Busola Dakolo “confessed” to having been raped by Pastor Biodun of COZA, the narrative has unabashedly flowed in her favour. Truth is, I can’t hold an opinion just because it’s popular. When a story is told, I simply put on my thinking cap, play it in my mind and take a personal stand based on the logicality or otherwise of the story . That’s why we have individual brains which can neither be borrowed nor shared. So, the mob can’t blackmail me into suspending my intellect. That’s the truth.
Please, let me remind us that the accusation against the Pastor is rape not adultery.Anyone that reads Busola’s version or watches her video without bias will definitely ask questions, especially if he or she is an adult like myself. You may not agree with me but Busola’s account seems choreographed. It’s very likely a script written to achieve a predetermined purpose. It was important she disclosed that she was just 16 when it happened. This means she was molested as a minor.
If absence of consent doesn’t fly, minority would definitely nail the alleged predator. But who’s going to argue on the veracity of this claim on age? Certainly not Pastor Biodun who has denied Busola’s allegation. You see, it’s not as straight forward as you think.
There’s no doubt about the attempt to play the victim to elicit public sympathy. Of course, it’s normal and natural for humans to tell contentious stories from their perspective with the intent to look good, or at least appear better than the other person. That’s where unbiased investigation comes handy. Rape is a serious crime. Biodun cannot be prosecuted and convicted solely on the basis of Busola’s own account. He must defend himself and Busola’s testimony must be subjected to serious scrutiny. On what basis do you accept her version as an absolute truth and Pastor Biodun’s as false?
This article is by no means intended to either justify rape, immorality or defend Pastor Biodun. It’s objective is to plead for a little fairness, broad mindedness and objectivity. Most of us have at different times been blackmailed or misrepresented. Surprisingly, victims are always too willing to become culprits in the infamous Department of Gossip. I will never understand how a man enjoys sexual intercourse which is devoid of mutuality. That’s how despicable rapists are. Consent is fundamental to sex. I hold both rapists and gays with the same amount of contempt.
I’m aware that celebrities, especially men of God are susceptible to blackmail. Some of the allegations may be true, no doubt. Some are definitely fabricated. The problem is that it’s difficult for people in this class to defend themselves.
Again, Busola said she was raped. I sincerely have my doubt. Rape is rape basically owing to the absence of consent. Consensual sex can’t be termed rape.
Look at the story again. Your mother traveled and left you with one of your sisters in the house- a duplex. The Pastor sneaked in surprisingly early in the morning and it turned out that his target was the one who opened the door for him. He must be very “lucky” to enjoy such precision of fate. As you opened the door for him, he pushed you to one of the chairs, removed his belt and had carnal knowledge of your virgin “womanhood”. Satisfied, he made for his car and brought you krest to drink, ostensibly as a contraceptive and you obliged.
Wow! What a storyline!!. This movie is only good for the oft intellectually non stimulating and predictable Nollywood. I doubt if this heart rending story can pass the test of either legal or logical scrutiny in the face of an allegation of rape. It can ground consensual sex(adultery) or child abuse if the minority status of the victim at the time of the incidence is ascertained. Definitely not rape. If you read or listen well, you will agree that if sex occurred at all, it was consensual.
Only an insane man would go to a strange environment and take such a risky action without a detailed ascertainment and assurance of safety anchored on absolute privacy. Who assured the Pastor that the environment was safe enough for him to “eat” uninhibited? I’m sure without such assurance, even lesser mortals won’t venture, let alone a celebrity Pastor. It’s noteworthy that most genuine victims of rape suffer in the hands of trusted people who share apartment or proximity with them. For the other cases, there’s always an ignored or accepted red flag. No man in the Pastor’s position would just wake up and attempt a rape without first testing the waters. Generally, he must be reasonably sure of the victim’s cooperation based on past and present interactions.
Busola’s account wants us to believe that within split seconds, the man ascended and descended from the mountain unrestricted, went outside to his car, brought a drink, hands same to his prey, she gladly or grudgingly received and gulped as expected. Is it that easy and straight forward? What could have given him such audacity and reassurance in someone else’s house? Unbelievable!
After such experience, the very next Sunday, the prey was in Church, albeit in low spirits. The fellowship continued into the future.
The second episode sounds even more weird. He drove you into an isolated part of the town, dragged you out of the passengers’ side to the bonnet and successfully “ate the food” to satisfaction. No shout, no struggles!
The length of time it took for this story to be told publicly is in itself a source of suspicion. As a Lawyer, I know crimes can’t be statute barred. But it’s curious that a molestation she suffered in her teens was successfully managed through school until she married and became a mother of three before letting the monstrous cat out of the bag.
Sister Busola has already presented herself as having been a serious Christian from youth, in fact before she was allegedly defiled. I think there’s something unchristian about her confession after many years had elapsed. Time should have healed her. If time couldn’t, she could have sought counsel aimed at healing and forgiveness. Thankfully, the molestation didn’t prevent her from loving her husband and giving him three beautiful kids.
If forgiveness was impossible (as unchristian as it is), she should have sought the prosecution of her assailant. I can’t fathom what the resort to media trial is intended to achieve. Is it healing, forgiveness or vengeance?
Friends, let’s stop unnecessary pontification. There’s definitely something about this scandal hiding very safely from us.
If you are a Christian, pray for Pastor Biodun, Sister Busola, her husband and children. It’s as serious as that. Omen Bassey©️
— BUsola vs Fatoyinbo
I presume a sane mind will separate emotions, sympathy and religion from logic in cases like this.
I put it to you that 80% of the world problem, wars, insurgencies are tailored by religion.
I have no reason to believe busola neither do I have a reason to doubt her. She decided not to voice out earlier for reasons best known to her. Perhaps, if she speak out earlier, a sound kind will ask for an evidence. Even sexual harassment counsellors don’t advice public charge without a sound proof. To be or not to be, she could have picked someone else. Another sound argument against the man of God is that there are previous unchecked allegations similar to the present.
However, when I remember the punishment of being guilty for such a barbaric charge at the court of law (life imprisonment). I consent to giving pastor a benefit of doubt.
I strongly believe lack of sound evidence is one of the reasons busola did file a case before now. Let’s see what proof she has to tender at the court of law. Afterall, pastor also deserve a fair hearing.
— *Dakolo story: the possibilities*
1. @bukoladakolo was in her sixteen, possibly a side chick to the pastor but giving sexual excuses.
2. On that fateful day, she might have hinted the pastor of her parents absence, hence the pastor came prepared
3. She might have witheld these account for years because of fear, shame and possibly @PB was then her man-friend.
4. @pb maybe requesting for reopening of their old romantic play. Which may have bursted to @timidakolo
5. @bukoladakolo, may just be knowing few things, hence feel cheated.
6. Telling the truth now may be a sacrifice required by @timidakolo after knowing what happened between the duo. The babe have to keep her marraige.
7. All is not well between @timidakolo and @pb
8. The duo i.e @bukoladakolo and @pb have their little secret of the whole mess.
While we await more revelations and eventual fade of the romantic script, I wish media experts well in their new voyage @olanrewajusamson
— “It’s a lie, I never raped” – Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Cries Out
Hmm! I think there is more to this. Now I am tempted to believe Busola more. His response sounds like a written document from a well expressed lawyer. He failed to admit having had any kind of carnal knowledge of her in the past which may have been mutual. The allegations are very strong and serious irrespective of when it happened. I strongly believe there is more to this. The pastor would’ve nailed this allegations by simply owning up that they had an affair.
—Busola vs Biodun: Neymar as a case study
Before you accuse or believe that story, remember Neymer’s case
Had it been that the innocent guy has no evidence by now the world will be tearing him limb for limb
his club would have sacked him and all endorsement destroyed.
Yes you heard me right
All these would have happened without proper investigation and done out of emotions and sentiments because the world frowns at rape (including me) and sometimes take actions on the accused without investigation due to gender ish.
Nowadays desperate ladies capitalize on that to pull down any man they feel like and the world won’t even ask questions and just destroy the accuser without proper investigation.
I use to join the band wagon until Neymer’s case showed me how wicked some ladies can be who would ever think that such innocent looking latino will ever accuse neymer falsely.
The world have started believing her story till neymer luckily presented a solid proof to end the allegations.
Ask yourself this question.
Neymer went free because he got some evidence to prove his innocence.
What about numerous guys in the same situation that gat nothing to back up their claims?
I rest my case here.
Please I’m not defending COZA Pastor, infact i don’t like that guy but let’s be logical in our reasoning SOMETIMES©️ Remi
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