Marrying a virgin doesn’t automatically mean you married well as a man.” – Pst Kosi Ebirim
Virginity is not a measure of character, wisdom, kindness, loyalty, or emotional maturity.
Many men focus on purity and miss the deeper values that sustain a marriage—like peace, respect, emotional intelligence, humility, and the fear of God.
A woman can be a virgin and still be:
Disrespectful
Argumentative
Ungrateful
Immature
Emotionally manipulative
What truly makes a marriage work is not just sexual purity but relational maturity.
Choose character over credentials. Choose peace over pride. Choose purpose over pressure.
N/B: Please note that this subject matter is not to discredit Virgins if you are one.