VALENTINE Day: The Heart Knows Where It Belongs By Oyedeji Ahmed (LMP)
Tomorrow is Laden with expression of love and affections by two lovers. It’s a special day for the lovers, as designed by the westerners to show love. However, it’s against the religious belief of the Muslim and has no biblical prove in the Bible.
For the fact that it has become a tradition in the Nigerian society, one need to wonder why SEX is exchange for love. It’s unarguable that February 14 is the only day that virgins get dis-flowered across the country due to the African mentality of expressing LOVE. We fail to understand that sex is not TRUE LOVE and vice versa
My Advice:
If the only thing that seems to bind a lady to a man is sex, then none should delude his or herself into believing that love is at work. Sex is not love. Love is not sex. You can have sex and not be in love. You can be in love and not engage in sex. A man may not be crazy about you and still have sex with you.
Using sex to manipulate a man may not always have a desirable ending. It is self-deception for a woman to think that giving a man sex will make him love her.
True Love will never make sex a priority. A man who doesn’t love you will not change his mind because of sex. If he tells you to ‘prove your love’ by having sex with him, he is only in for the sex, and if he is in for the sex, ‘better sex’ will take him away from you.
Love never shames or degrades. If you have made the mistake of trying to use sex to buy a man, now is the time to re-assess your relationship and build it on the right foundation.
Sex is good but there is more to a lasting relationship. Let a man get married to you because he loves you, honours you, feels a strong emotional and spiritual connection with you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you.
Never be a victim of Valentine cause it’s not the day for sex but to show love to your love ones, orphans and less privileged. Remember, a giver will never lack but rather claims massive favour and reward from God.
LMP writes….
13/02/2023